@tenna You're toy!!
Physical affection
Just so happens that I ALSO wanna kiss a lot of people who are not girls
re: TF2
@inbtwn Huh, it's actually 100% what I expected. I find snipers so incredibly unfun to play against
It also makes me sad that the rest of the world isn't like this, I think this should just be The Default, but hey
A very specific experience I've had with a few people now is like. As we become closer friends they'll say something like "I've never really had anyone that I could just... tell things without worrying that I'm breaking some unspoken social rule because I know you'll tell me"
And I'm sure 90% of this is autistic people naturally gravitating towards each other but it still makes me so happy that I can be that safe place for someone else
@zatnosk You can also just answer with "it's complicated". Like, you're allowed to not have a single yes/no answer. Gender is just a first approximation anyways, it never represents someone's whole identity
This is why my gender is cat. It's just the initial impression I want people to have of me
@zatnosk Yeah but then you have the fake binary of second degree binary/second degree nonbinary
I think the REAL answer is that words are fake and gender is made up and the only way to answer "should I call myself this" is "does it feel good"
@zatnosk Honestly I just feel sorry for the people of Aarhus because I can imagine the frustration of every English speaker just writing your city's name as "Arhus"
@eclairwolf Noooo I hope you feel better tomorrow
@Onidotmoe Yeah, it's ALMOST like social expectations are entirely built around what is most comfortable for neurotypical people!
Sexuality stuff
And like, I really don't care about strangers, but the instant someone shows any flirting interest towards me my brain is immediately like "oh cool, we now find this person extremely attractive"
@Clover My brethren
And THEN I met another trans person named Emil who is also not originally from this country
Hi, I'm Emil (or Emi) Socks, a goopy catbat!
I'm nonbinary, pronouns are it/its or they/them.
White, late 20s. Originally from Spain, recently moved to Denmark. I speak Spanish (native), English (fluent) and I'm currently learning Danish, though I'm only a beginner.
My main interests are videogames and programming. I like JRPGs, visual novels, platformers and rhythm games, among other things. I'm not super experienced with computers, but my favourite language is Haskell and I play around with it whenever I can. I will also probably ramble about genderstuff from time to time.
Minor follows not allowed! I post a lot of lewd and kinky 18+ stuff in private here, including pictures (always under CW, so it should be easy to ignore if you're not interested).
Some rough interaction guidelines:
- Likes/boosts and casual conversation is usually fine from pretty much everyone. I like talking to people.
- I block and mute liberally. Please don't take it personally!
- Affection, flirting or lewd interactions are okay if you ask first! I'll usually be fine with it if we've talked before.