Physical affection 

Just so happens that I ALSO wanna kiss a lot of people who are not girls

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Physical affection 

I don't post about girls a lot because they already get a lot of love in my immediate circles

But I hope you are all aware that I think girls are awesome and I wanna kiss girls

re: TF2 

@inbtwn Huh, it's actually 100% what I expected. I find snipers so incredibly unfun to play against

It also makes me sad that the rest of the world isn't like this, I think this should just be The Default, but hey

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A very specific experience I've had with a few people now is like. As we become closer friends they'll say something like "I've never really had anyone that I could just... tell things without worrying that I'm breaking some unspoken social rule because I know you'll tell me"

And I'm sure 90% of this is autistic people naturally gravitating towards each other but it still makes me so happy that I can be that safe place for someone else

@zatnosk You can also just answer with "it's complicated". Like, you're allowed to not have a single yes/no answer. Gender is just a first approximation anyways, it never represents someone's whole identity

This is why my gender is cat. It's just the initial impression I want people to have of me

@zatnosk Yeah but then you have the fake binary of second degree binary/second degree nonbinary

I think the REAL answer is that words are fake and gender is made up and the only way to answer "should I call myself this" is "does it feel good"

@zatnosk Honestly I just feel sorry for the people of Aarhus because I can imagine the frustration of every English speaker just writing your city's name as "Arhus"

"Getting out of your comfort zone" is not inherently a good thing. It's a deliberate choice that some people can only do when they feel like it's safe and worth it for them

It's called comfort zone for a reason

Nudes talk 

Accepting follow requests has become a kinda weird process because now I have to decide if I'm okay with someone seeing my dick just kinda based on vibes

Which I mean, has worked out so far. You're all pretty great

@Onidotmoe Yeah, it's ALMOST like social expectations are entirely built around what is most comfortable for neurotypical people!

Sexuality stuff 

And like, I really don't care about strangers, but the instant someone shows any flirting interest towards me my brain is immediately like "oh cool, we now find this person extremely attractive"

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Sexuality stuff 

How is everyone so cute

Heck I'm pan

And THEN I met another trans person named Emil who is also not originally from this country

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